upside down kingdom

Category : barbarian, different, faith, taking action

 

Sometimes the Bible scares me. 

I try and pretend I don’t understand, but deep down I do.  I know all too well that the Bible is clearly teaching a message I don’t want to hear.  In the book Titus, Paul says, “Teach slaves to be subject to their masters in everything, to try to please them, not to talk back to them, and not to steal from them, but to show that they can be fully trusted, so that in every way they will make the teaching about God our Savior attractive.”

That does not make me feel comfortable!  That’s such a dangerous statement.  If slaves must be obedient, pleasing, and trustworthy toward their owners, how much more must I be?

God calls Christians to an unbelievably high standard.  We are called to be set apart, to live differently, or as Erwin McManus says, to The Barbarian Way

We’re called to live this way in every area of our life.  Not just an hour or two on the weekend.  Which is why I found it interesting that I came across two sports stories in the same week. 

1. Grapevine Faith vs. Gainesville State School

2. Covenant vs. Dallas Academy

Each story had one team from a Christian school.  But the endings were miles apart.  Grapevine demonstrated Christ-like love to Gainesville by cheering for them.  Why?  Because Gainesville is a prison.  They had no one to cheer for them.  They had no family or friends on the sideline.  They don’t even have freedom.  Yet Grapevine Faith created a moment of love for kids who may have never experienced that type of love before.

Covenant on the other hand destroyed Dallas Academy by 100-0.  Is there anything wrong with that?  Maybe not.  But can you imagine Jesus running up the score on a bunch of kids?  Neither can I. 

Compare that with what one kid from Gainesville State School said, “everything about it was upside down.”  Do you think anyone is saying that from Dallas Academy?  We don’t like to say things like this – but was God glorified in any way by running up the score?  Did it teach anyone anything about who he was?

Sometimes we get caught up in the moment and make poor choices.  It happens.  And we must learn to live with our failure and move forward.  God’s Kingdom is an upside down Kingdom.  Our lives should be upside down too.

 

smitten mittens

Category : humor

 

This has nothing to do with God.  It is just simply the worst invention ever.  And people say we don’t live in a fallen world….

 

what happens if you have to sneeze?

 

that dude just lost his man card

 

reader comment: trusting God when it seems impossible

Category : bible, faith, reader comments, trust

 

R3 has a lot of amazing readers who often share great insight.  Sometimes I like to post these comments if I think they add something extra to the conversation.  And so once again we have Christopher over at Got-fruit.net with something good to say on the post “trusting God when it seems impossible“:

I’ve probably said it before or in a similar manner but… it’s like each “day” of growing up with God is a progression of trust, boldness, confidence and certainty; qualities that He builds up in our hearts so that we can make the right choices (Christ, Paul & Timothy) vs opting for sinful choices such as those made by Asa, Saul (OT), or Judas. 

Keeping you in prayer that, though the road might be full of challenges and temptations to turn to your own ways, you would continue to trust in the LORD (Proverbs 3:5-6).

It is better to take refuge in the LORD
       than to trust in man.
It is better to take refuge in the LORD
       than to trust in princes.  (Psalm 118:8-9)

what i’m watching: fireproof

Category : God, feeding my brain, hope, love, taking action

 

I saw this movie with some hesitation. 

As a rule I’m not a fan of things marketed as “Christian” to “Christians.”  Especially when it comes to entertainment.  ”Christian movies,” in my experience, tend to have extremely cheesy plots and low entertainment value.  Of course it doesn’t need to be this way, I just think it is this way.  But my girlfriend had been pushing to watch Fireproof for a few weeks, so on Valentine’s day I relented. 

Like most things involving God, I was surprised.

Fireproof is one of the best movies I’ve seen this year.  That’s not to say the acting was top notch.  It wasn’t.  And the production values were pretty low.  But this movie touches on something.  It’s bigger than the sum of its parts.     

The story revolves around a couple who’s marriage is falling apart.  Caleb Holt (Kirk Cameron) is a firefighter who’s better at putting out fires than saving his marriage.  When his wife demands a divorce, Holt turns to his father, who asks him to take “the love dare“  - a 40 day journal describing how God wants him to treat his wife.

I’m not going to pretend the movie’s plot was original, or that it’s somehow ground breaking.  Rotten Tomatoes gave Fireproof a 37%.  That’s not very good.

But as I alluded the strength of the movie isn’t in the story line, the acting, or the production values.  The strength of the movie is the fact that we can all identify with the characters.  We’ve all been hurt by someone we loved.  We’ve all felt that betrayal, and the anger that comes with it.  We all long to be loved.  And I believe we all long to know God.

I found myself completely identifying with Caleb and his demand for respect.  While my girlfriend completely identified with Caleb’s wife (Erin Bethea) and her longing for love. 

The primary focus of R3 is how you live out a life of faith, and Fireproof offers a perfect illustration of this.  The characters do enough “wrong” things that it’s easy to blame either one of them for the situation.  Just like in real life, no one is perfect.  We all do things that damage relationships.  The world tells us we should repay violence with violence, sarcasm with sarcasm.  But what we see through Caleb Holt is someone who wants to act out in anger towards his wife, but chooses to do something else.  And it’s through that “something else” that his marriage is saved.

That’s what it means to live out a life of faith.  We must choose to live differently, to live for something else.  And in doing so, God transforms us. 

 

 

 

are you special?

Category : God, faith, hope

  

Most of us want to think that we’re special.  We want people to miss us when we’re gone.  We want them to recognize that their life just isn’t any good without us in it.  So we tell ourselves that other people may be expendable, but thank God we’re not!

We cling to this idea that we’re special.  That we’re unique.  Despite the evidence.  We hold onto our jobs, our relationships, even our possessions as if they somehow make us unique, somehow special.  We fill our lives with things that turn out to be utterly meaningless.

So doubt creeps in.  Maybe we aren’t as special as we think we are.  Maybe we aren’t quite as wonderful as we think.  Life has a way of proving that to you time and again.  Is it any wonder that people lose hope? 

Yet when God cries out “I’ll give my life so that you may know me.”  We turn our backs and walk away.  It’s ironic that the one person that truly views us as unique and special we reject.  In our desperate search for meaning and value we reject the one place we can receive it.

trusting God when it seems impossible

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Category : 1 Kings, faith, fear, live for the eternal, taking action

  

Life can be hard.

There are millions of people without jobs.  They wonder how they’ll feed their families, pay their mortgages, and make things work.  There are millions more who are without food, hundreds of thousands sold into sex slavery, and countless more without any kind of health care. 

How do you deal with those things?

This isn’t an academic conversation to me.  This is real.  This hits home. 

I’m out of a job because I acted in faith when God told me it was time to move on.  I acted, and now I wonder if that was the right thing.  Did I hear him correctly?  Or did I eat some bad pizza?  Of course at the time I had no idea what was going to happen to the economy.  I had no idea how hard it would be to find another job (I’d never had a problem in the past).  I acted because I believe that’s what God wanted me to do. 

I don’t pretend to understand everything.  I’d also be lying if I said I’m not tempted to find a solution “on my own.”  Isn’t that the reasonable thing to do?

The world tells us we need to fend for ourselves.  And in those quiet moments when we’re alone, isn’t that what we hear whispered from the bottom of our soul?  Don’t we hear a voice that says, “this problem can only be solved if you do something!”

That must have been the voice Asa heard. 

Asa was a king who was once described as someone who “did what was right in the eyes of the Lord.” (1 Kings 15:11)  That was high praise considering the kings before him were pretty awful people.  But by the end of his life, Asa had succumbed to that voice.  He was being attacked from the south and feared his kingdom would be overrun.  So he did what any rational, normal person would do – he made an alliance with someone stronger. 

He listened to that voice and “did something.”

You see that voice is right.  Our problems won’t be solved if we don’t take action.  If we sit around paralyzed by fear, doing nothing, nothing is exactly what will happen.  Unfortunately Asa thought action meant bribing a foreign king (1 Kings 15: 18-19) when he should have realized that action meant trusting God.   

That’s the danger we all face.  We want to take action.  But we don’t always want to wait for God to get involved.  So we act.  But what happens when we’re wrong?  What happens when action without God is the worst thing we could have done?  

No one wants to hear God say, “Because you relied on man, and not God, your problems will be worse than before.”  Asa wasn’t any different.  When he was told that, he didn’t say “gee thanks, I didn’t realize that.”  Nope.  Asa took the man delivering the news and threw him in jail.  (2 Chronicles 16: 10)

In the end, things did get worse.  Asa died from an infectious disease.  In his feet.  Not exactly the best way to go out.  But even worse, in the end Asa didn’t even bother turning to God to ask for help.  He decided it was more important to “do something” then to rely on God.  So he sought out the best doctors of the time - and died two years later. 

That’s not where I want to be. 

No matter how scary it gets not having a job, I don’t want to “do something” if that something means leaving God out of the solution.  I don’t believe for a minute that God wants us to sit around waiting only for a miracle to occur.  I think he wants us to give problems every ounce of our strength.  If you are sick he wants you to see doctors.  If you’re facing an invading army, he wants you to seek allies.  If you are homeless he wants you find a home.  If you’re jobless he wants you looking for a job.  But he doesn’t want you to do it alone. 

There are times we need to trust God when it seems impossible.  Asa failed that test.  But we don’t have to. 

No matter what our problems are, trusting God is the right solution.  Because as Asa discovered, no matter how brilliant a doctor is, they are still limited by time, knowledge, and skill.  I’m not saying following God is easy.  In fact, following God is tough.  It’s even painful at times: the man who told Asa he was wrong, wound up in prison.  Yet, there are more important things in this life than having a job, defeating an invading army, and even your freedom.

There is a point to life.  And sometimes to get there we have to trust God even when it seems impossible. 

what i’m reading: the great divorce

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Category : CS Lewis, God, book review, feeding my brain, sharing faith, sin

   

“When is this book going to get good?”

To be honest, I thought CS Lewis was more brilliant than this.  “Am I going to get something that changes the way I think?”

Those were the thoughts running through my head as I read The Great Divorce by CS Lewis.  I kept waiting to find something that would make the effort of reading the book worthwhile.  And the more pages I read the more I began to wonder if I’d ever find anything.

It seemed like the more meaning I struggled to get out of the book, the less I actually found.  But I wasn’t about to be disappointed.  Because a few pages later I found myself shocked and a little bit shamed.  You see The Great Divorce is a story of people who have died and now have one last chance to seek God.  Yet we find almost all of them choosing to hold onto their old lives at the expense of building a relationship with God

Little did I realize that CS Lewis was describing my own condition.

But the more I read, the more I realized that over the last few months I’ve been looking at God more as work and less as my savior.  As much as I love writing, as much as I love reading about him – when you do it full time, it can become work and not joy.  No matter how pure something starts in this world, sin always has the chance to corrupt it.

It’s this theme we see time and again in The Great Divorce.  One exchange involving the Ghost of a mother who had lost her son showed us just how far something pure (like love) can fall.  She was furious that she couldn’t immediately see her son.  And in her fury she couldn’t see that it was her own rage that separated them.  Or as one Angel put it, ”You’re treating God as only a means to [your son]“.

Ouch.

How long have I been using God as a means to my writing?  Do I spend more time writing because I love to write?  Or because I love God?

Of course those are questions that apply to us all.  Do we volunteer because we really want to serve?  Or because we like how it looks on our resume?  Do we help the homeless because we love like God?  Or because we feel guilty?  Do we tell people we don’t believe in God because we really think God doesn’t exist?  Or because it’s easier than saying we love to sin?

When I first became a Christian I couldn’t get enough information about God.  I read my Bible constantly, I surfed blogs, read books, listened to podcasts.  Even my conversations with friend would turn to God.  No matter how much I learned, I wanted to know more.

Somewhere along the way that enthusiasm started to fade, however.

I started to look at learning about God as “studying about God,” a subtle but important shift.  I found myself being less excited and feeling more obligated.  That’s not to say my passion disappeared.  I still spend hours reading and learning about God, but I wasn’t bringing the same excitement to it all.

It’s that contrast that seemed so stark as I was reading The Great Divorce.

I don’t think I am special, unique, odd, or even unusual.  We would all rather be kings in Hell than servants in Heaven.  We are all like the Ghosts in The Great Divorce.  It’s hard to let go of the things that we think make us who we are.  And if we’re not careful, everything we love can be perverted and twisted into something evil.  Just like the mother Ghost.

CS Lewis puts it this way, “every poet and musician and artist, but for Grace, is drawn away from love of the thing he tells, to love of the telling till, down in Deep Hell, they cannot be interested in God at all but only in what they have to say about him.”

As you become familiar with the stories of each of the Ghosts you realize that we all have another chance.  No matter what arguments we have, for or against God, we can always ask for another chance.  There is never a moment that lacks hope.  We just have to be willing to give up our throne in Hell.

That’s the cool thing about God.  There’s always a chance to start over.


sportscenter – going up?

Category : humor

   

To be honest, I wouldn’t get in the elevator either…

taking God for granted

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Category : God, choice, faith, hope

  

There’s a moment I love when you first get over a cold.  You have enthusiasm, energy, excitement.  You’re just happy to be able to breath.  You walk around appreciating that you can do it pain free.  And the fact that you can smell dirty laundry makes you happy.  Or is that just me?

But after a few hours, a few days, that changes.  We begin to take everything for granted.  We forget what it was like to be miserable.  We can’t remember how much it hurt just to talk or move.  We tell ourselves, “it wasn’t really that bad…” 

For many of us, that’s how our relationships work with God. 

He comes in, does something amazing and within a few days, a few hours, we’re back to our “normal” selves.  We forget the miracles.  We forget how he changes our lives.  We even forget that he was the cause for it all.  We find ourselves back into our old habits as if we never experienced something amazing.

Most people who believe in God have have experienced this.  As humans we seem to easily forget who helped us, and attribute it to our own efforts.  Maybe there isn’t any way to stop it.  Maybe it’s just part of our fallen nature.  Maybe when Adam and Eve ate the fruit from the tree of knowledge of good and evil, we gained an understanding of evil, but lost the better parts of our memory. 

To be honest, I don’t know why we do this.  I can just make guesses.  And I don’t know how to stop it.  But I do know I don’t want to lose my sense of gratitude.  I don’t want to re-learn lessons that took suffering to learn in the first place.  I want my mind to latch onto God and never let go.  I never want to take him for granted.  Yet why is it so easy to forget?  How do we keep that sense of gratitude?

Maybe that’s just part of the struggle.  Maybe the only thing we can do is to wake up every morning and say, “today I am going to remember.”  Maybe what God wants most is that we give it everything we have, and if we fail, that’s ok, he’s there to pick up the slack.  Maybe living out a life of faith is more about honestly trying than succeeding.

And maybe it’s through that struggle that we’re changed, allowing us to remember what God has done for us.

unconditional love

Category : God, different, faith, love

 

I am still fighting a cold, the flu, or ebola.  I can’t really tell which.  The way I’ve felt makes me think it’s all three.  Which means that for better or worse there has been a lot of channel surfing.  Okay, that’s mostly for the worst.  Especially when you land on one of those so-called day time talk shows. 

One show had a young guy yelling into the camera that he didn’t get someone pregnant and that it was all a trick.  He knew the child couldn’t be his, because he knew the girl had been sleeping with someone else too.  His closing argument was, “why should I fall in love with a baby that’s not mine?”

Let that sink in for a moment.

We live in a world that operates out of quid pro quo mentality.  If that baby is mine, then I will love it.  We forget just how harsh that can be.  What would have happened if Joseph told Mary, “why should I fall in love with a baby that’s not mine?”  That’s a reasonable response isn’t it?  The baby wasn’t his.  It surely complicated his life.  Plus he was well within his legal right to not only divorce her, but to have her put to death.  Yet he didn’t.

Why should I fall in love with a baby that’s not mine? 

Imagine if that was the standard God used!  Thank God (literally) it’s not.  God acts out of love not because we deserve it or can earn it, but because love is who God is.  It’s a defining characteristic.  And the closer we move towards God, the more we begin to be defined that way. 

Christianity is founded on a scandalous message.  But it’s a message that’s scandalous not just because of who was involved, but also because of their actions.  2,000 years ago people who loved God made radical decisions that went against the world’s wisdom.  They made decisions to love people no matter what.  Today, people still make that same choice.

When you see someone in your life in need, don’t say “why should I love them, they aren’t mine?”  Instead, say, “I love them, because that’s who God is.”  Or as Brandon Heath says, Lord “give me your heart for the ones forgotten.  Give me your eyes so I can see.”